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Mar 7, 2011 18:45:00 GMT -5
Post by James on Mar 7, 2011 18:45:00 GMT -5
ok this will sound stupid but the fourth time I got physical with my new girlfriend (just over 3 weeks) i wanted to go all the way, even though, we've done pretty much everything else. She told me she had a little problem, and the last thing i thought of was a thingy.
Now this might make me sound stupid, especially since, the time before this, I actually did already 'go all the way with her' since she let me get inside her anally...
She's awesome and funny and really cute. But a thingy makes her a guy... im confused... i dont know how i can be straight and love a girl who has a thingy.
she definitely is a transexual, she was born male she said.
what do i do?
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Apr 3, 2011 13:42:16 GMT -5
Post by Courtney on Apr 3, 2011 13:42:16 GMT -5
James,
Just because your girlfriend has a thingy, does not make her a man, and therefore does not make you gay. If she is a transexual, that means that she is a female on the inside, and the inside is what matters. If you are lucky enough to find someone who you connect with, pls dont let something like genitals scare you off! There is an awesome poem that I came across a few months ago, that really spoke volumes to me, I hope you like it..
http://f**kyeahmenfolk.tumblr.com/post/3565283329/how-to-make-love-to-a-trans-person
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May 12, 2011 22:33:30 GMT -5
Post by Tina on May 12, 2011 22:33:30 GMT -5
Hello,
I am in the same position as you. I am currently dating a transgendered man. Don't know if I said that right but he is a female-to-male. Our journey has been really strange since before meeting him I wasn't even sure what I thought about gay/lesbian/bi/trans life. But I have fallen madly in love with him. I know that it is sometimes extremely strange, and, let's admit it, its a turn off. I've often (in my weak moments) seen myself thinking of the guy that I could have with no 'complications'. What I've had to do is focus on what I do have. I love my boyfriend for who he is, and nothing could ever change that. Just try to be open-minded. I can't offer you any deep insight, but know that people are going through the same thing. Knowing that you're going through this too has helped me a lot too, so thank you. Just know that it's possible to love them for them. And I've also had to really realize that genitalia does not define man or woman. My boyfriend is really and truly a guy on the inside, and for some reason, I have fallen for him.
I hope this helps and your journey goes/is going well
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